Tick off points that feel relevant to you and your intimate relationship – I want to learn more about :
- EARLY CHILDHOOD TRAUMA
- POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER
- IMPACT OF TRAUMA ON MY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS
- MY/MY PARTNER’S FEAR OF INTIMACY IN RELATIONSHIP
- WHY I AVOID BEING SEXUAL IN MY RELATIONSHIPS
- WHY I AM SO ANGRY
- WHY I FEEL SO ANXIOUS/DEPRESSED
- WHY I HAVE SO MANY PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS
- WHY I WATCH PORN
- WHY I WANT A LOT OF SEX
- WHY I ENGAGE IN RISKY SEUXAL BEHAVIOR
- WHY I CHEAT
INTIMACY TRAUMA happens because you have experienced some rough childhood stuff. Like emotional , sexual or physical abuse from a parent /caretaker or you were neglected or abandoned as a child.
This leaves you feeling out of control with your emotions and behavior. You may act out sexually , as in have risky sexual activity, or you may act out with too many drugs, alcohol, gambling, spending. Perhaps too much work or too much time online. Anything just to still the busy ness in your brain and the pain in your body.
I HAVE expanded my skills through current and ongoing study of TRAUMA THEORY.
Using the work of Bessel van der Kolk, Peter Levine, Daniel Siegel , Steve Porges and Allan Schore, all international experts in neuropsychology and neuropsychiatry, I am able to manage the trauma that results from Developmental Trauma Disorder, i.e early childhood trauma.
Using these same techniques of trauma theory, I manage INFIDELITY and CYBER INFIDLEITY as traumas , bringing relief to couples who endure great pain .
Bring your traumas with intimacy to me. Allow me to sit with you as you learn to endure deep discomfort and pain and finally relief.
I want to enable you to live a more mindful intimate life equipped with skills to self regulate and manage your emotions to be able to live a healthy intimate life.