Lets begin unpacking this sex toy story. I know some of you remain sceptical and uncomfortable with the notion of sex toys. I adore seeing the faces of people who walk into my practice and ask for the Dr Eve Store. Some look like deer before the headlights: exposed and vulnerable , whilst others are playful, gleeful and horny just looking at the products. I think it is brave . To purchase a sex toy, well, in my sex store, you have to talk about “sex”, specifically your own sexuality. My assistant and I are going to ask you penetrating questions to ensure that you get the kind of product that really matches with your current sexual desire.
If you are there with a partner, it may be the first time that you actually verbalise your sexual desires. Im thinking about the man who confidently requested a vaginal vibrator for his partner. I pulled out my current favourite, namely Wonderlust Serenity and saw her face drop. She was eyeing the clitoral vibrators Of course she was- she knew she needed clitoral stimulation to become orgasmic. I grabbed my top of the range best of all time , clitoral vibe , namely the brand new Womaniser 2Go vibe. This lipstick shaped vibe is a vacuum pump device- merely place it in your vulva and lie back as it suctions in your clitoral area. He got a quick lesson on female orgasms:)
I sell a product called Zestra. It is a Stimulant.. a clitoral stimulant. This is for the woman who has sluggish orgasms, no orgasms, or low interest in sexuality. Placing a drop of this clinically tested stimulant on to your clitoral area, engorges and lubricates and awakens sexual interest. I think grabbing a bottle of Zestra , or any other more budget priced stimulant such as System Jo Atomic Clitoral Stimulation Gel is a gentle and sensitive way of letting your partner know that you really would love more arousing touches.
As a man how do you tell a woman that you want anal play ? Of course! Buy an anal sex toy . Top of the range toy here is the We Vibe Ditto . Its sophisticated ,with a remote control and vibrates .. which helps ease the anus to relax and expand together with fabulous and necessary anal lube such as System Jo Anal Premium Warming 🙂
Even though sex toys have been normalised through media , made accessible online and in bricks and mortar stores, there remain myths that undermine their importance in your sexuality. For example, my penis cant do the job if she wants a toy. Or Il become addicted to the toy . And even, Ill be replaced by her toys. Fact is that toys are add ons, and in certain circumstances really necessary.
My Top Reasons why you should use sex toys :
- Toys are top class sexual accessories, not purple and pink jelly made junk. In line with cutting edge technology, sex toys fall into the realm of virtual reality, to match your lifestyle, which is busy, long distance and no time for bed time sex. The top selling toys this season are remote controlled via mobile apps. My favourites are by we Vibe, namely We Vibe Gala , which is a just fantastic clitoral fit vibe, and then the fabulous We Vibe Jive, which I predict will be the best selling couples toy this season . A woman wears it- inserts one end into her vagina, the other end wraps around her clitoral area and she hands over the remote to her partner. Or he/she can be anywhere in the world .. and turn her on from an app.
- You’re bored. Of course. You live in a world of FOMO (fear of missing out) so sex toys gets you out of your state of ennui , off porn sites and into bed with a real life person . Try watching your partner use a Flashlight to masturbate himself next to you … why not ? Fleshlight is the best male masturbator of course.
- Want some kinkiness without having your partner think you’re weird? Place a silicone penis sleeve over your penis . Imagine you are large hard and having a rough ride sexual experience.
- Afraid to let on that your ageing results in a penis that isn’t as hard as it once was? Visit your urologist for a check up. And use a Silicone cock ring . It will keep you hard, make you last longer and give you added sexual confidence.
- Take the pressure off yourself and a partner. High expectations result in anxiety which causes sexual dysfunctions such as early ejaculation , no orgasms for women and eventually low desire in being sexual. Sex toys bring you a low pressure environment. Just knowing that the vibe will bring her to orgasm , will allow you to focus on your own arousal and pleasure. For example, while thrusting let her use a precious new bullet vibe , Screaming O Voom .
In summary, sex toys are IT. I have the perfect Screaming O Bullet Vibe that I bought for you , for a stocking filler. Get one for every female member of your family. You will be the hit of the season!
Go see my new web site , just launched, for your Xmas pleasure and entertainment: www/drevestore.co.za
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